Old Soul

What is an old soul?  Being an old soul refers to how you view and approach life.  Your views echo those of someone much older than you, who has lived a long and fruitful life. You approach life with a greater sense of knowledge and wisdom coupled with a greater sense of inner wealth.

I am an old soul and have always felt like I was living in the wrong generation.  The way my mind works does not fit in the time span I am existing in.  There is so much greed; power struggles with everyone wanting what they want no matter what.  I do not see much compromising done.  I remember a time when life was easier.

  I miss my clients who have passed on.  I felt so connected to them and fortunate to remember all of our conversations; the subjects we spoke of at length.  Though they were older,  they were so far advanced of the people of today.  They were far advance of myself as I listened and learned. 

    My way of thinking is so different from most I know.  I see, hear and feel things that most others do not.  I had always felt I was a freak but now I have found I am more in touch with what is most important in life.  I actually feel sorry for the ones that  are not.  My dad was that way.  He always told me I was special.  I did not always feel that way.  Being different tends to make one always keep to themselves.

Ways to know if you are an old soul:

You know there’s another way to do things.  You often say things like, “I have a feeling this will work”, or “there’s no harm in trying.” People may view your suggestions as outdated or done, but you know that sometimes, just sometimes, the tried and tested ways of doing things are best.  You feel that not all problems require a new and innovative solution, and going round in circles when the answer may be staring you in the face is usually a waste of valuable time, and energy.  You have no problem trying out new things, but know, too, that oldies can also be goodies.

You give advice well beyond your years.  You somehow seem to know how to do things you haven’t even done yourself yet. It’s like you’ve lived before, and just know how it all works. People often look at you with that “how do you know?” expression, and you respond with a confident, “I just know!”  Truth is, you do just know, but don’t know how you know. 

You like to think things through.  Even the most impatient of people will need to think things through if they are an old soul at heart. You need that time to mull it over in your head.  It’s an important part of your to-do process, and it enables you to move forward in the direction most in sync with your mind, body and soul.  To you, not being able to think things through, even a little, leaves you feeling uneasy, and that does nothing to help.

You don’t waste time asking why.  After you’ve thought things through, you move ahead, confident in the knowledge that you’ve done all you needed to do to get going.  You don’t waste time in trying to justify it to yourself or anyone else. You have little time and patience for the nonsensical and would prefer to utilize your time getting things done, rather than sitting around talking about getting things done.

You don’t like to go out just for the sake of going out.  It’s quality over quantity for you. You love to go out and have fun, but going out because others feel it is required, or you look boring if you don’t, holds no merit for you.  When you go out, you’d like to experience something; something that resonates with your way of perceiving the world and challenges you.  You’ll happily spend money on those things that give you wonderful experiences and broaden your horizons. Going out just because, seems pointless to you; you’d rather save your time, and money, and do something of quality.

You have an appreciation for old literature.  You respect the classics. You’re often found getting euphorically high off old books. You’ve probably sniffed a good few old books in your time, and you don’t care who sees.  For you, old literature should be respected and valued; they hold history and historical experience between their pages and deserve to be exalted.

You have old ears.  You love and appreciate the classics and have a longing for the musicality of those nostalgic tunes. Your record (that’s right, record!) collection looks like a retro music store. Probably only 10% of your collection consists of what you refer to as “nowadays” music, the rest are from decades gone by.  You know only a handful of today’s artists, and that’s only because you haven’t heard an album yet to rival your favorite Grateful Dead album, or your favorite Frank Sinatra track.  You don’t go out of your way to avoid modern music, it just doesn’t seem to whet your appetite. So you’ll happily pump your beloved Janis Joplin or Nat King Cole all the way home.

You see no need in being unnecessarily stressed.  You don’t invite drama just because it makes you feel alive. You’d much prefer to live without it.  You appreciate the quiet, and invite peace. It’s become apparent to you that the world views stress and busyness as being productive.  But you know that being productive has nothing to do with being crazy busy or stressed, but everything to do with how well you utilize your time.  So you’re mindful about what you spend your hours doing, and make sure your doing something worthwhile, and not just keeping busy for busy sake.

You value deep connections.  For you, it’s all about quality over quantity. You require a deeper connection with those around you in order to feel any connection at all.  Half hearted friendships, surface-level relationships and fly-by-night hook-ups are not your thing. You value the essence of deeper friendships and long lasting relationships, as you give yourself wholly to them, too.

You love learning.  Nothing gets you going more than learning more about yourself, other people and the world around you.  For you learning is growth, and growth is part of life. As an old soul, you approach learning from the understanding that it doesn’t have to lead anywhere, for example, a degree or certificate.  Sure, those things are great and offer a sense of accomplishment, but for you it’s the act of learning something new and wonderful that motivates you, not the initials after your name!

You don’t see the fuss about the latest craze.  Following others just to fit in? Where’s the fun in that? To you, being a style chaser or tech follower is something you can never quite get your head around.  Sure you may even own a Kindle or you may have an iPad, but now they sit there, gathering dust, because you miss the feel (and smell) or the real thing, and the computer works just fine.  You don’t really care whether you’re an early adopter or a late comer. None of the things defines you, and you’re okay with that.

You value the company of those much older than you.  You want to drink in their wisdom and you hang on their every word as they tell you stories of their youth. You laugh at their accounts of old trends, and cry at the war stories, you reminisce with them about long lost loves, and actually listen to their pearls of wisdom.  At a time when we seem to have less and less time for the more mature among us, the old soul has nothing but time to give. That’s because you appreciate what they have to share, and let’s be honest, you secretly wish for a time when life seemed so simple.

You are the epitome of calm.  You are the steadfast one, the one neither swayed, nor toppled, even in a crisis. You probably say things like, “Slow is smooth, smooth is fast,” and tell people to “Get a grip!”   To everyone else, you appear disconnected, but to those who know you well, you’re actually hard at work, you just work differently.  You’ve learned that nothing actually gets done if everyone is running around losing their heads; someone needs to be the calm force. This is just how you make sense of what is happening.  You stop. Wait. Listen. Then decide what steps to take next.

You truly understand what it means to give.  To you, there’s no better way to live, than to give.  Giving your time, or money or those things you simply have no need for is the most rewarding thing anyone can do with their short time on earth. It isn’t an ego thing, far from it.  For you, giving is the purest act of love. Plus, you see no point in holding on to things you can’t take with you, so you’re more than happy to travel light!